No, no, it's a good word! Well, one I'm guilty of using and liking <g>, so obviously I think that. But I *do* like it, and I think its only fault is the rampant overuse by writers who haven't made the rest of the scene hot enough, because there are so many places I find that it *works*. For example, to get frank, if sex is happening and a cock's involved, then there *is* that moment that's all pressure and heat and notquitepushingin, and the feeling is of a delicious insistent *bluntness*-- which, even if it's just for a nanosecond, is still (imho!) intense, and still one of those key sensations that I like to read about. And no other word, in that context, will quite do.
in defense!
That's what I think, anyway. :)