yes! wallowing in my misery is exactly what i do. hehe. but of course it's not a good idea. it's ok, though, that you can't give advice. i couldn't reasonably expect it, could i? having a crush on a real person... less dangerous, but could result in stalking, besides which i think i rather have one already. luckily don't know her name and only see her in the cafeteria every now and then.