What I really hate is when people get all high and mighty about how if you don't write the SOs, it means you're either mysoginistic or completely OC or both. Maybe it's because I don't care to write open relationships or cheating all the time! A little bit of either I don't mind, but I'd prefer a universe without SOs when I'm writing RPS (or hell, RPF, too; I've written stories with Carrie-Anne Moss and Rachel Weisz and I'm pretty sure both have husbands or boyfriends).