uhm. i don't know. i am a naturally reserved person, and. had v. bad experience involving stupid slimy guys. really, if you dance it is not because you want to hear slimy guys whisper "ooh, sexy" in your ear. no. it isn't. or lovingly caress your ribcage. (slimy guy: you're going to call me before you leave town, right? me: *trying not to edge away* no. slimy guy: you are. you know you are. me: i'm really not.) repeat ad nauseum.