Fuck past me, honestly
20 Apr 2019 02:02 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
cimoreneMy wife said, "You can come to ours and we can do it for you,"
and I said, "We can make food,"
but then MIL said, "I have food too...",
and on autopilot, like an idiot, I said, "Or we can eat at yours and do it on your computer," completely forgetting she lives in the boonies & wants us to take an hour long bus trip home.
Then it turns out she doesn't have food and wants to spend an hour in the supermarket first.
One of us needs to learn some assertiveness. Or I could think before I speak...
and I said, "We can make food,"
but then MIL said, "I have food too...",
and on autopilot, like an idiot, I said, "Or we can eat at yours and do it on your computer," completely forgetting she lives in the boonies & wants us to take an hour long bus trip home.
Then it turns out she doesn't have food and wants to spend an hour in the supermarket first.
One of us needs to learn some assertiveness. Or I could think before I speak...
