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PREVIOUSLY IN THIS JOURNAL: The cute little old lady who rents the mother-in-law addition on our house so that we can make the mortgage payment is going to move to Turku at the end of the month, but we were inundated with a surfeit of potential replacements as soon as our SIL posted on FB about it.

Some of the hopefuls were Ukrainian refugees and one of the parties of Ukrainian refugees were about to become homeless, which at least enabled us to select on the basis of greater need. This family of Ukrainian refugees is six people though, which seems excessive for a tiny one-bedroom flat (51 square meters, which I think I remember was 540-something square feet?). Okay, only two of the people are adults - sisters-in-law - and the rest are their children, the youngest 3 and the oldest 12; and granted, the combined mass of these four children is definitely considerably smaller than the combined mass of our four pets and MIL's entire household's worth of junk, so we were definitely more cramped in that flat than they will be. Possibly much quieter though.

We showed it to them and they were still, understandably (since they have no other options), eager to make it work, so we agreed and now we have a sort-of arrangement (no signed documents however). Our current little old lady swears she will be gone by the 29th, and we will call them the moment they can start moving in. In the meantime, we have to compile a list of things we can contribute to their household (spare kitchen table and futon, some dishes, tragically no kitchen implements because we already donated all of those to the local charity shop last fall).

Now the big worry is that we still have to contact the other 6 parties and let them down nicely, although at least it's easier to do this in favor of homeless Ukrainian refugees.

In anticipation of today's meeting, even though we really only HAD to show the addition, we cleaned the entire downstairs of the house pretty thoroughly, in case we invited them in. As it happened, we didn't, but this is the cleanest the downstairs has ever been, I think - we've cleaned the normal rooms properly before, but until now we always had inescapable piles and stacks of MIL's stuff we hadn't got rid of yet and it was never possible to completely clean out under the stairs. But we actually cleaned EVERYTHING (downstairs) now! We're down to two cardboard boxes of Stuff to Sell that don't fit in a closet! Wax even emptied the bathroom sink trap, which was full of hay and bunny fur from rinsing out the bunny water bowls, and I emptied and reorganized the little shelves on the kitchen side table, and we beat all the rug runners and oiled the butcherblocks and even hung art in the hallway (although it still doesn't have its floor or trim and we still have several walls needing resurfaced).




1. Tristana helping Wax clean the sink 2. Our Agent Cooper print by my friend Ella (and Snookums) 3. Snookums and the kitchen floor with a rug we paid too much for but it was so pretty 4. Rowan and Tristana communing in the redecorated livingroom 5. Inspector Japp exploring the redecorated livingroom for the first time

More complete photojournalism is provided here by [personal profile] waxjism.

Oh, and just... to preserve them for posterity... here are the two most amazingly bad bits of advice we've received regarding this situation:

  1. One of Wax's middle school classmates: "Homeless Ukrainian war refugees? No no, don't rent to foreigners. You can't trust them. I know a guy who rents and he has a policy of never renting to foreigners."

    (There is still some slight friction between us because Wax did not respond that her wife is a foreigner, although obv they have been told before.)


  2. My former career adviser, likewise after being told about the Ukrainian refugees: "Renting is good though... try to make a little profit, save a little money!" Mmmmh, yeah, we're not trying to make a profit on the homeless war refugees, my dude.
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Human Rights Watch investigates and reports on abuses happening in all corners of the world. We are roughly 450 people of 70-plus nationalities who are country experts, lawyers, journalists, and others who work to protect the most at risk, from vulnerable minorities and civilians in wartime, to refugees and children in need. We direct our advocacy towards governments, armed groups and businesses, pushing them to change or enforce their laws, policies and practices. To ensure our independence, we refuse government funding and carefully review all donations to ensure that they are consistent with our policies, mission, and values. We partner with organizations large and small across the globe to protect embattled activists and to help hold abusers to account and bring justice to victims.


I've been following, along with kleptocracy expert Casey Michel and authoritarian regime experts Sarah Kendzior and Andrea Chalupa of Gaslit Nation, Human Rights Watch's European Media Director Andrew Stroehlein since November 2016, when I did a deep dive into the nascent resistance in search of reliable experts and sources.

Here's a few links from Andrew Stroehlein's Twitter in the last couple of days:

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I clicked open two "explainers" this morning from Twitter and they were both... kinda bad.

So let me reiterate that recommendation for kleptocracy expert Casey Michel. And of course, journalists Sarah Kendzior and Andrea Chalupa have covered - and predicted - this situation and its history on Gaslit Nation, their podcast, and posted a collection of threads and transcripts the other day.

NOT recommended:

-An explainer that starts by taking Putin's statements at face value to analyze without noticing that they are sweaty-toothed rambling obsessive temper tantrums is not gonna be a good explainer. Every narcissistic dictator surrounds themself with yes-men and becomes more and more isolated from reality checks and any kind of real advice, because the people around them ultimately are too scared to do anything but say what they want to hear. This was happening to Trump, documentedly, from numerous sources as they eventually jumped ship from his administration, and it is also documentedly happening to Putin, who has been in a bunker obsessing about Imperial glory and Stalin.

-An explainer that tries to analyze what looks like a miscalculation from somebody like that as a secretly clever play in a game of 3D chess has also completely missed the point.

-An explainer that tries to peg Russian hostility towards the Balkans to their Nato membership completely fails to understand how Nato and uh, the history of the post-Soviet republics has worked. To wit, they joined Nato BECAUSE they were justifiedly frightened of Russian aggression. Because Russian aggression and threats and attempts to install puppet governments and interfere in their politics never went away in the first place.

-Also, I've been the fly on the wall through multiple discussions as my classmates exchanged stories and memories from Soviet Russia, Ukraine, Estonia, and Lithuania. I guarantee that the post-soviet economic collapse due to privatization and evil capitalism, as miserable as it was, was not broadly experienced as substantially less stable and safe. Scarcity is unstable and unsafe, obviously. But on the other hand... before the fall of the USSR... just EVERYTHING was hazardous. Because evil dictatorship. The citizens weren't big fans of that either.

-And also no, the conflict with Russian separatist forces in Donbas since 2014 cannot be fairly characterized as the west unwisely sending money to Ukrainian nativist fascists who villainously wanted to ethnically cleanse poor innocent Ukrainians of Russian descent, unavoidably thus 'provoking' Putin to 'strike back' by trying to occupy Ukraine. What the ACTUAL fuck did I just read? It sounded like a Bernie bro conspiracy theory on Reddit!
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NBC Opinion: Why does Russia want to invade Ukraine? To rewrite the post-Cold War order
Moscow’s demands were always about more than the security arrangements in Ukraine: The West can’t say we weren’t warned, Feb. 23, 2022, by Casey Michel, author of "American Kleptocracy"


For analysis, I mean.

I have noticed a tendency for my American friends and family to be more surprised, and to have missed more of the background stuff going on with Putin's Russia, than I expected, having spent my adult life here in Finland.

I learned about the Maidan protests and the 2014 invasion of Crimea in realtime with my Ukrainian and baltic friends in the advanced Finnish class I was taking at the time, and Finland is full of Russians who have fled Russia. I think we have two Ukrainians and a Russian out of like less than twenty employees at the store where I still (until next Wednesday) work.

So... talking to my family about this today gave me a bit of worldview vertigo.

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